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    • Loving Your Inner Circle
    • Being Married >
      • Finding Long-Term Stability and Deep Meaning
      • Preventing Unfaithfulness
      • Growing in Christ Together
      • Enjoying Each Other
    • Raising a Family >
      • Having Enough Money
      • Helping One Another Succeed
      • Helping Kids Turn Out Right
      • Making Family Life Enjoyable and Responsible
      • Caring for Elderly Parents and Grandparents
      • Parenting Alone
    • Having Friends >
      • Making Friends
      • Keeping Friendships Interesting and Meaningful
      • Meshing with Family
    • Being Single >
      • Finding Meaning in Life and Dealing with Loneliness
      • Picking a Mate
    • Aging Well >
      • Getting in Touch with Life’s Deeper Meaning
      • Avoiding Helplessness
      • Surviving Financially
      • Not Burdening the Kids
      • Braving Illness
      • Facing Death with Courage
    • Tackling Life >
      • Preventing or Resolving Conflict
      • Succeeding in a Job
      • Maintaining and Growing in Purity
  • Essential Foundations
    • Preface & Introduction
    • Chapter 1: Growth of Our Spirits into Christ's Image
    • Chapter 2: Faith Together Must Become Essential
    • Chapter 3: Preparing for Heaven Needs to Be Now
    • Chapter 4: The Togethers in Worship & Battle
    • Chapter 5: The Togethers and Eternal Relationship with God
  • The Togethers
    • Togethers of Relationship with God >
      • 01 Worship God
      • 02 Submit to God
      • 03 Led by Jesus
      • 04 Communicate with God
      • 05 Serve God
    • Attitudinal Togethers >
      • 06 Love
      • 07 Belong to
      • 08 Be Devoted
      • 09 Accept
      • 10 Bear with
      • 11 Forgive
      • 12 Submit to One Another
      • 13 Serve One Another
    • Togethers That Hold Together >
      • 14 Citizens of Heaven
      • 15 Meet Together
      • 16 Unity
      • 17 Peace
      • 18 Humble
      • 19 Harmony
      • 20 Mercy
      • 21 Meet Needs
    • Togethers That Strengthen >
      • 22 Hospitable
      • 23 Treat Equally
      • 24 Share
      • 25 Administer Grace
      • 26 Speak Truthfully
      • 27 Encourage >
        • Encouragement Methods
      • 28 Honor
      • 29 Commend
      • 30 Spur On
    • Togethers That Heal >
      • 31 Hurt With
      • 32 Comfort
      • 33 Confess Sins
      • 34 Carry Burdens
      • 35 Restore Faith
    • Togethers of Spiritual Growth >
      • 36 Seek the Kingdom
      • 37 Pursue Holiness
      • 38 Examine Faith
      • 39 Teach
      • 40 Counsel
      • 41 Disciple
      • 42 See Do His or Her Part
      • 43 Face Discipline
    • Togethers of Involvement in the World >
      • 44 Be Salt
      • 45 Be Wise
    • Togethers of Evangelism >
      • 46 Uphold Messengers in Prayer
      • 47 Be the Light
    • Togethers of Battle >
      • 48 Contend for the Faith
      • 49 Arm Yourselves
      • 50 Warn
      • 51 Battle Temptation
      • 52 Stand Up to Devil
      • 53 Test the Spirits
      • 54 Hate Evil
      • 55 Die For
      • 56 Rescue and Restore
    • Togethers of Perseverance >
      • 57 Pray for One Another
      • 58 Run the Race
      • 59 Preserve Hope
      • 60 Face Hardship
      • 61 Hold to the Truth
      • 62 Look Out for One Another's Good
      • 63 Forbid Mistreatment
      • 64 Prevent Love Money
      • 65 Prevent Revenge
  • Resources & Applications
    • Friends Together with Jesus >
      • Getting Started in Friendships That Build the Church
      • Jesus in the Cereal Aisle
      • 3 Friends Walk into a Cafe
    • Family Together with Jesus >
      • Getting Started in Family Life That Builds the Church
      • How to Lead a Family as a Family
      • Successful Family Dialogue
    • Marriage Together with Jesus >
      • God-Centered Marriage
      • Getting Started in Helping Your Marriage Build the Church
      • Successful Couple Dialogue
      • Powerful Hints for a Successful Marriage
    • Communication & Fun Games
Basic Preparation for Transformation
Week 2, Email 3, Friday
Christians Together Absolutely Necessary: Part Four

The Power Plants of Christianity: Part 2

Families Together with Jesus

Families that recognize Jesus in their midst will live quite differently.  Recognizing is more than merely “knowing” that He is with them.  It will involve listening for Him to request something in the relationships between family members as well as for the family as a whole.  

Parents will lead the family as a society of believers rather than merely a collection of individuals.  Dads and moms will empower the family as a whole  to do most of the tasks that life sends their way.  Everyone will practice the Togethers and individuals will be a part of the whole rather than merely attached superficially to the whole.  One child’s struggles with school will be everyone’s struggle and much help will be offered from every family member. Parents will remember that the Holy Spirit also empowers children to help siblings and parents.  

Family members will learn to listen for the voice of Jesus through their Bibles or their consciences.  Jesus will be asking them to pitch in and help one another with the problems and challenges of life.  The Lord may ask the family unit to serve relatives and neighbors, plan enjoyable events, help each other live faithfully, etc.

Think of the social and evangelistic impact on your community if hundreds of families lived this way – Jesus with them and leading them.
Dozens of examples are given at www.ChristiansTogether.org.
We have a “Family Together with Jesus” Discipleship Pack to grow a walk together with Christ.
The article “Leading the Family as a Whole” is available at www.VeryGoodFamily.com.
The article “Successful Family Dialogue” is available at www.VeryGoodFamily.com.
Marriages Together with Jesus

It probably is more prevalent that marriages are aware that Jesus is with them and would like to guide the behavior between the spouses.  But, if marriages go further to practice the deeper love as Scripture calls for and is described by the Togethers, there would be vast improvement in marital relationships and stability.

Too often the teaching that husbands and wives are to help each other gets applied to only bringing in the groceries from the car.  The tragedy in the Garden of Eden must warn couples to help one another do whatever God asks of them.  Sometimes help will come from friends or their children, but usually it should come from the husband or wife.  This help from each other will create the glue of appreciation that will enhance and guarantee the marital relationship.

In addition, wherever they are they will be aware that Jesus is with them and might need them.  As each other’s primary helper, spouses will be constantly checking in with Jesus as to what help needs to be given and how it is to be applied.  The long-term nature of marriage allows for patient and loving spiritual help to be given over long periods of time.  Jesus may point out that a spouse is too in love with money and a fast, direct, frontal approach would be doomed to failure.  Instead, Jesus might order a long-term approach that includes Bible study about money and gentle input regarding spending decisions.

Also, the long-term relationship of marriage usually brings annoyances and relationship problems that will force the necessity of transformation into the image of Christ more than most other relationships.  The fact that husbands and wives can “drive one another up the wall” is probably good, not bad – if faced as an opportunity to become like Jesus.  The marriage with conscious awareness of Jesus’ presence will listen for His comfort and leading through the long path of understanding and love.

Then there is the fact that Jesus will give a couple that truly lives conscious of His presence many ministry tasks.  They will go with Jesus to help neighbors, relatives, neighborhoods, church congregations, strangers and those in need in various situations and places.

Think of the social and evangelistic impact on your community if hundreds of marriages lived this way – Jesus with them and leading them.
Dozens of examples are given at www.ChristiansTogether.org.
We have a “Marriage Together with Jesus” Discipleship Pack to grow a walk together with Christ.
The article “Successful Couple Dialogue” is available at www.VeryGoodFamily.com.
The Organizational Church Can Cooperate

There is presently little to no help in the organizational church for friendship groups, families and marriages to become the powerhouses of the faith they were meant to be.  There is so much more that church leaders can do.

Pastors will have to make sure in sermons that listeners are admonished to make sure the teaching of the sermon takes root in the lives of each of their closest friends.  This will not happen automatically  in a culture full of autonomy and privacy.  Pastors will have to tell friends how to help one another grow in what the sermon has taught. 

Husbands and wives also need to be commissioned to help one another see the teaching of the sermon through to completion.  They, too, will have to be told how to help each other, usually over the long run.  This will be somewhat different than how friends will help each other.

Kids and parents will have to be told in the sermon that they can do a lot to help one another make the change highlighted in the sermon.  Kids will especially need careful instruction on how to do this.

Unfortunately, when friendships, families and marriages are left out of sermons and the books Christians read, those basic social units of the church do not know that they need to do anything.  Yet they are absolutely necessary for spiritual growth, obedience, and preparation for heaven.

See our recommendations to pastors and church leaders at www.lambsbride.org.
See our recommendations to pastors and church leaders at www.lambsbride.org.
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